I’m fortunate enough to be able to read “Don’t read this until you want to make more money” before it was even released! Dov is a friend of mine so I really appreciate him and what an amazing book this is!

I want to write about the book “Don’t read this unless you want to make more money” today. It was written by Dov Baron and you can follow him on twitter at @DovBaron.

The book was really great, I thought when I first started reading it that it may just be another book about wealth, abundance and the law of attraction but it had only some of that but so much more!
Dov take’s things that you may have learned and helps you get them.  He wants you to make senses of it! (Senses meaning to understand on more than one level)

The book broke down so many principles and characteristics and mindsets of the rich.  It is really packed with great information and I’m going to share with you some of the lesson’s that I learned from it in this post.

One of the coolest things that I learned from this book was actually not about wealth or money at all.  The thing I learned that I really loved was the difference between these two mindsets when meeting people.

Some people ask: “What can this person do for me?” and others ask “What can I do for this person?”

Now I think in some regard we ask both of those questions in our mind in someway hopefully but we probably focus on one more than the other.  I realized that I focused on “What can this person do for me?” More than “What can I do for this person?” it’s a common thing to do because we as entrepreneurs want to get to the next level and grow our business.

The best way to grow your business is to give to people and invest into them.  By doing this they ask “What can I do for this person?” and this time that person is guess who? YOU!

You will have people giving to you left and right if you start giving to them and helping them however you can.  That is a great way to start a relationship.  We all know that the people that help and support and show us the most love are the people we want to give back to most, it’s reciprocation.  So go out and meet people and ask yourself “What can I do for this person?” and do it for them.

The more of that you do the better off your business will be, simple as that.

Another awesome lesson I learned from the book is “Self esteem” vs. “Self worth”

Self esteem is the way people see you externally and self-worth is your intrinsic value.  Self esteem is important but self worth is even more valuable because it determines how much value you have and how much value you deliver in the marketplace.

We all know that we get paid in direct proportion to the amount of value we deliver,  one of the things Dov covers in this book very well is increasing your value.

I truly loved this book, I actually could not put it down after I started reading it.  I stayed up until 3 a.m. to finish it!

He covers so many topics and ties them all into becoming affluent and living a wealthy abundant life, things like abundance, gratitude and so many other topics tie into this and he brings them all together so beautifully.

He talks about overcoming your fear and uncovering your value by doing some simple exercises, I cannot recommend the book enough if you are serious about becoming affluent, abundant and living a happy, healthy, wealthy and extraordinary life.

I really loved this book and I loved how it covered some of the law of attraction and wealth mindset stuff in more detail.

It covered the basicas but then shared with you practical how to information to change including several exercises which I absolutely loved.

Pick up the book below, share the post and leave your comments!

Thanks!

David king

P.S. I also loved what he said about QRF aka: Quantum Resonance field, it’s really great stuff! you’ll enjoy it if you enjoy anything to do with success or the law of attraction!

You can follow Dov on Facebook and twitter and read his posts at http://DovBaron.com

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I came across this video today thanks to @Justinbrooke’s Newsletter. I love it! it’s so true!
Playing small does not serve the world, Check this video out and leave your feedback below…

Be powerful beyond measure.  You got it in you, just decide to put it to use!

Never quit! Your closer right now in this moment than you ever were.

Let me know if I can help in any way

David

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I am writing this blog post for a friend today because I feel it will help them but I’m also sharing it on my blog because I know there are plenty of people who not only need to hear this information but will benefit extremely from it if they understand it and research it and do some diggin!

In this blog post i’m going to try to jam-pack some life lessons that most people don’t ever learn in their lifetime simply because they never learn from some extraordinary people out there that teach this kind of stuff.

These lessons are worth their weight in gold.

Take these to heart, I’m not writing this blog post because I don’t know them… i’m sharing them with you because I believe they are gold nuggets.

The first lesson that I want to share with you is the Internal/External factor.

* Internal/External Factor -In Life we (most of us) have a HUGE problem and it’s always always ALWAYS outside of us!

Newsflash… it’s not.  Here’s the issue, we think that if we have financial problems it’s our bosses fault.  If we have health problems it’s our doctors fault.  If we have any sort of problem it’s obviously much easier to point your finger and blame it on something but does that help you grow as a person? does that empower you? or does that make you more dependent? True Independence and freedom is the goal (for me at least) and I know for a fact that if I could go back in time and look internally at my problems instead of externally I would be in a much better off spot today.

Your External Life is a printout of your internal thoughts, feelings and beliefs.  Are you not where you want to be externally? then stop looking externally for the answer… it’s in you.  Most times it’s a negative thought, feeling or belief that’s holding us back.  Have you ever thought: “I’m not good enough” or “I’m too young” or “I’m too old” for ___________.

STOP IT.  STOP IT RIGHT NOW! You have no idea how negative these beliefs, thoughts and feelings affect you.

Your Thoughts create your feelings which create your actions which create your results.

So think of it like this… Your thoughts are now physical.   Anything you think happens instantly.  Hold yourself to that and start to mold your beliefs, thoughts and feelings to what you want instead of what you don’t want and you will see a change in your external life.  Everything external is coming from something internal.

You think being pessimistic or having limiting negative beliefs don’t mean that much? Keep doing it and see what road it takes you down.

If you are serious and want to grow and get somewhere look internally and fix the belief that say’s “I can’t” to “I can” because success only come’s in CAN’S not can’ts.

* Approval from who? - Who determines how successful you are?

Many many MANY people are looking to be successful.  What is success? Your alive and breathing right? I would say that’s “success” enough.

One thing that I see over and over is people doing something simply because their parents did it or because someone wants them to do it.

When was the last time YOU lived your life for YOU?

This is your life! Live it your way! Do what YOU want to do! Forget them! better yet screw them! Tell them to live their own life and if they want to continue talking to you that they will not “disapprove of you” or transfer negative energy to you with what they want you to do.

One big thing that I used to do that I just recently totally stopped doing was look to “beat others” and get external approval.

None of that matters, you winning is not really winning.  Them telling you “nice job” doesn’t matter and you will NEVER be truly happy until you do what you love and forget about what they think and have to say.  Block them out and do what you love and you will be happy.

Don’t worry about the external results, that will come in it’s time.  Just keep doing what you love and be passionate about it.  The only way you will be truly happy is to do what you love.  If you do something you hate everyday to “get promoted” or impress someone else with your professional degree you will keep spinning your wheels trying to find happiness.

I recently saw “The Shift” by: Wayne Dyer and he explains this really well.  He is an enlightened, happy best-selling author that really “get’s it” so check him out and that movie when you get a chance.

* Fear – Fear absolutely cripples 99 out of 100 people 100 percent of the time.  Fear is something that is always holding us back and reminding us of the failure we were and that we never could achieve that because we never have before.  Notice I said “failure we were” and “couldn’t achieve it because we never have before” talk about the past huh?

Fear is: False Evidence Appearing Real.

Fear is just a feeling, that’s all it is! But once again this feeling is crippling you.

Fear often causes stress too which gets you frustrated and negatively affects your health.  What’s the point of fear?

Feel the fear and do it anyway.  Most times you could be afraid because of what your family or friends might think of you if you are doing this or you are afraid because you’ve never achieved that before and your mind keeps telling you that “you can’t do it.”

If you let your fear control you and your life it will cripple you and put your dreams of running a marathon in a wheelchair.

DON’T Let something that is new or “difficult” in your eyes stop you from taking action and trying it.  Someone has done it before and there is someone that can help you! Don’t give me the excuse that “no one wants to help me” because there are over 6 billion people waiting to help you!

In life what you do should be what you want to do, You should take risks and not regret anything.

Don’t let fear and your negative mindset control you…. When you have a negative thought, feeling or belief come up *SNAP* out of it into a positive belief!

Snap into a positive empowering belief.

When you are doubting your ability you are killing the chance and even idea of it beginning to take form.

Don’t do that!

Watch this video real quick >>>

Notice the millimeter off?

its’ the difference between where you are and where you want to be.

That millimeter is your mindset.

Control your thoughts, feelings and beliefs and then and ONLY then will you have real control of your life and where you are going.

Don’t let that millimeter frustrate you… It just take’s a mindset shift and another try.

One last thing I want to share with you…

* I Failed - So you failed huh? welcome to the success club.

Everyone who is successful failed, it’s inevitable! You literally have to fail in order to become successful regardless of what you want to do!

Look at edison, he “failed” 10,000 times.  But guess what… he didn’t see them as failures, he saw them as 10,000 ways not to successfully not discover the light bulb.

You see… He couldn’t successfully create a light bulb without trying 10,000 times.

He didn’t take those 10,000 unsuccessful attempts to label himself as a failure though… No no no…

He took EVERY SINGLE ONE of them and learned from them.

Every single one, then he created a light bulb.

today you couldn’t read this if it were’nt for light bulbs, you couldn’t flip the switch and turn light on.

You couldn’t use lights, watch tv, go online or have cell phones!

Remember that your “failures” are nothing more than learning lessons as long as you continue to learn from them and discover your true greatness… otherwise you’ll be living the “normal” life like 99% of everyone and let your failure trump you to become just average and never live your dream and this is not you or else you wouldn’t have read this far.

so WAKE UP! you deserve to live a happy, healthy, wealthy, wise, rich, strong and free life already!

Today is the day that you decide to make this shift.  Commit to it and you will make it happen.

To Life success and your wildest dreams fulfilled!

David King,

P.S. Just shift your mindset, by doing that you will change your aim of where you are going just like the golf lesson.  You are sooo close! your mind is the thing that’s getting in your way and saying “i’m so far.”

Mark this day as the day you changed your mindset and negative beliefs to positive ones that support you and empower you to do what’s right for you.

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Work hard on yourself.

I just recently published this youtube video about this quote…

“If you work hard on your job you can make a living, If you work hard on yourself you can make a fortune”

The quote is by: Jim Rohn

I love that quote… IT IS SO TRUE!

Here is the video…

Work hard on yourself…

Not only that but work smart on yourself too.

Because as you know.

“It’s about working smart”

So let’s work hard at working smart…? does that make any sense?

Sure hope so!

Bye for now!

David King

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